Finding a girl friend when you are a teenager?
Hey i am currently in High School ( UK ) and havnt had a "real" girlfriend before. I have hardly any friends in school mainly just people i talk with but not go out with after school. The cloths i wear are mainly band t-shirt and because of that people have a pre judgement of me thinking i am just another stupid metal head. This makes it really hard to find a girlfriend. I really dont want to change my style as this is who i am. What can i do?
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1 :
You don't need to change at all. Develop a little socially. Make some more friends. Get a little easy going. Meet some girls at school. And if you're worried about your looks, clean up a little. A little can make a big difference. Just relax, it all comes in time. But you've got to give it a little push as well. Best of luck
2 :
well the obvious is just wear plain tees! appearance is kida a big deal in high school and life for that matter! and if your that hell bent on not changing look for a girl thats into your scene at a show or something! for the school thing its a good idea to join a group and get some friends its no good to be an outsider!
3 :
find a girl who is into the same music or social group as you
4 :
well for one, don't change your style. You are who you are. As for the girlfriend, you just have to be friendly and talk to people. A girl who likes you will notice you, and she'll come. You can either wait for her or break the ice and go after her.
5 :
i think it was easier to find someone in HS, gets harder the older ya get
6 :
no way! you don't need to change trust me. if a guy changes to make me like him it really annoys me because then i think he is a poser. if you want some one to like you for who you really are be yourself. let them get to know the real you. because from the information given you sound a really cool person.
7 :
well to get a true fren u don have to change urself just follow some simple steps n u will suceed..... 1. have a friendly behaviour towards other. 2. have a smiling face. dont frown so much. 3. mix with people n talk freely.INTERACT. 4. hangout together. 5. be open... n welcomin TATS ALL!!! I hope this will atleast help u bit...
8 :
light your hair on fire, thats a sure thing
9 :
DONT CHANGE ANYTHING!! seriously everyone finds someone eventually .... but changing yourself might get you someone .... but for the long term your true colors would eventually come through and she will reallise that you are not who she thought you were. just be yourself and i am sure there would be a girl out there interested =)
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